First Dates

A first date is where a match on paper turns into a real connection, so it is natural to feel a few nerves. Our first date guides cover the whole journey: choosing what to do, keeping the conversation flowing, the questions worth asking and the ones best saved for later.

Start with what to do on a first date for the essentials, then read our list of good first date questions and first date conversation topics so you never hit an awkward silence. If it goes well, our second date tips help you build on that spark. Looking for somewhere to go? Browse our date ideas.

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8 Essential Second Date Tips
First Dates

8 Essential Second Date Tips

Nervous about date number two? Our guide offers 8 actionable second dates tips to build connection, spark chemistry, and secure a third. Read on for success!

First Dates: frequently asked questions

Pick something relaxed that lets you talk: a coffee, a drink, a walk or a casual activity such as mini golf. Keep it to an hour or two, so it is easy to leave on a high. Our guide to what to do on a first date has more ideas.

Stick to easy, positive topics: travel, food, hobbies, favourite films and what you both enjoy doing at the weekend. Ask open questions and listen properly. See our first date topics and first date questions.

If you both enjoyed yourselves, a quick message within a day saying so is plenty, and suggesting a second date within a week keeps the momentum going. Read our second date tips.